Cyndi Kay Green

Bullying is a behavior that is encountered in many areas, including daycare. A parent doesn’t send a toddler to daycare anticipating that they will encounter a bully. However, it happens more often than we like to admit. In short, bullying is a repeated behavior of intentionally harming or humiliating a person who is weaker, smaller, or younger. It can come in the form of a verbal, physical, and even mental attack. Bullying that takes place in a daycare setting is not the typical form of bullying. The child will usually display more aggression and a bossy attitude. More often than not, the child will consistently pick on another child who is smaller, weaker, or shy, and who will give in to the request of the bully. “This is My commandment, that you love one another, just as I have loved you. – John 15:12, NASB The basics of bullying Most of the time the reason behind being a bully is to get what is wanted. Bullying is not a genetic trait. A person becomes a bully through behavior that becomes learned through watching others. As a preschooler, they may not understand how cruel their actions can be nor do they consider the other child’s feelings. Types of bullying Although there are a few types of bullying, daycare bullying typically shows up in two ways. Verbal bullying ensues when the bully says mean things intended to cause others to laugh at the victim. This can be name-calling or teasing to make them feel bad at the expense of others’ fun. Physical bullying is easier to spot because it involves hurting someone or causing damage to their belongings. Daycare incidents often include hitting and kicking to get what they want. It may even be noticed when the bully destroys or takes [...]

Children can be affected by mental health issues that are related to emotional behavior disorders. These disorders make it hard for the child to regulate emotions. When this happens, they may not make the right choices for the proper behavior in certain situations. Understanding disorders that a child may have, such as emotional behavior disorder, can help caregivers choose strategies to manage behavioral issues. Plano Christian Counseling provides faith-based guidance and support to help families navigate these challenges with compassion and effective strategies. Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid. – John 14:27, NIV Causes of Emotional Behavior Disorders There are no defined causes of emotional behavior disorders in children. To properly identify these disorders, many factors are considered. The difference in brain chemistry and genetics are known to play a role in the presence of emotional behavior disorders when there are other mental health issues involved. Other causes connected with these disorders are traumatic experiences that result in behavior issues such as abuse and neglect. Types of Emotional Behavior Disorders Emotional disorders are related to mood disorders. When a professional refers to emotional behavior disorders, they are typically describing mental health conditions that affect a person’s mood. Children can suffer from emotional behavior disorders as well as adults. ADHD - Attention-Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder This is a neurobehavioral disorder that is typically diagnosed in childhood. Most of the symptoms are characteristic of inattention and impulsivity. Easily distracted. Restless. Interrupting others. Has difficulty following directions. Disruptive. Impulsive actions. Conduct Disorder Children with conduct disorder often express aggression toward others and violate normal behavior with peers. Bullying others. Cruel to animals or others. Destruction of property. [...]