Spiritual Development in Children and Raising a Godly Family
As parents, we are familiar with developmental physical and social milestones as a way of assessing our children’s development. If our child does not reach a milestone, we seek advice or assistance to be sure they do not fall behind. However, spiritual development is not commonly discussed, so here is a brief overview of a child’s stages of spiritual development. Birth to 3 years old A baby’s focus is their own comfort. Their entire existence is rooted in self-preservation and complete reliance on another. They cry when they are tired, hungry, or just uncomfortable. As they are expressing themselves, they are also learning whether their needs will be met or not, and every obstacle creates a new opportunity. Communication develops quickly from one-way to two-way. At first, they just mimic, but in time, they start to understand language, and communications become clearer. Babies experience their world through their senses. Sight, sound, smell, touch, and taste create a sense of safety and comfort or fear and discomfort for babies. It is important for parents when first taking their baby to church to be sure that the church is experienced as safe and comfortable. It helps if a baby hears the same music at home as they do at church, as this will give them a sense of familiarity and comfort. The church nursery is often a child’s first experience and sets the foundation for their pattern of attending church. A church nursery should be inviting with lots of bright colors and toys to play with or look at. The attitude of the church nursery worker is extremely important, as the baby will associate the nursery worker’s attitude with the church. Is the nursery worker overly tired or stressed? Is the nursery worker excited to see your baby and welcoming? Is [...]
