How to Deal with Anticipatory Grief
You called hospice. You have tried to put it off as long as you could, but your loved one’s health is declining quickly. You are filled with an enormous amount of emotions. Sadness, guilt, anger, overwhelming grief, and a sense of significant loss can leave you feeling lost and helpless. This is called anticipatory grief. These emotions are a normal part of anticipatory grief. We don’t want our loved one to suffer, yet we walk the fine line of grief (feeling our loss) and relief (knowing our loved one will no longer be in pain), and this can lead to guilt. Tips for Dealing with Anticipatory Grief Anticipatory grief can wear you down. You feel a host of emotions. Watching someone pass away and knowing that you will be left behind to mourn them and care for their remains and belongings is overwhelming. Even if you can rest in the assurance that you will see them again through your and their belief in Jesus Christ, mourning still occurs. Learning how to manage anticipatory grief will help you to stay present with your loved one and at peace throughout this time. It is okay to feel the stages of grief early Acknowledging your feelings will help you to process them. It is normal to feel the stages of grief when you know someone is passing away. The stages of grief include shock/denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. You may pass through these stages now and also after your loved one passes away. It is normal to feel anger toward yourself and your loved one, followed by feelings of guilt or shame for feeling that way. Learn to sit with those uncomfortable emotions. Find a healthy outlet Creative and physical outlets allow you to express your emotions instead of keeping them [...]









