Spiritual Development

Statistically, 50% of all marriages in America will end or have ended in divorce. What’s even more staggering, is that a study done by The Pew Research Center found that out of a group of 4,752 Christian individuals, 51% of them had been divorced. Each year, over one million American children suffer through the divorce of their parents, while half of the children born to married parents this year will see their parents divorced by the time they turn eighteen. These statistics are both shocking and sad, and perhaps the words of Jesus from Matthew 19:6 are flashing through your mind when it comes to marriage, “Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.” (NIV) Certain Bible verses about marriage show us God’s intention for marriage, and we’re going to dive deeper into what that intention is in today’s article. We’re also going to look at the negative effects of divorce on both adults and children, the seven most common reasons for divorce, and what marriage counseling looks like for those who may be considering it. The Negative Effects of Divorce on Adults The textbook definition of divorce is the legal dissolution of a marriage by a court or other competent body; to separate, disconnect, divide, disunite, or annul. According to the psychologist, Romeo Vitelli, adults who experience divorce face a variety of psychological issues including increased stress levels, lower life satisfaction, depression, increased medical visits, and an overall increase in mortality risk compared to those who remain married. The legal process of divorce can be lengthy and incredibly taxing on a physical and emotional level. The negative effects of divorce on adults both physically and emotionally may include: Unhappiness Depression Health issues Substance abuse Loneliness or loss of social network Decreased contact with children Ongoing hostility [...]